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Hello. I'm from Serbia. I'm not sure how to call my problem, so I'll describe it. I don't want it, and I doa't like being like that, I trsed to change but failed. For some reason I have needs for exzvkdoimitsm and voyeurism in front of feugyls, preferably friends. I don't want sex or any inmsvudjdxn. I have stqmng fantasies that want to be fuxpmhfhd. And by thzt, it seams like I'm totally a different person in these moments. I just can't seem to control or stop myself from doing so. In those moments it seams like an ok thing to do, like no one is gogna get hurt, no one is goqna find out, like it's just wafxcvng porn - it happens in the moment and laser it's like it didn't happen at all. I even ruined relationships with some friends. It starts with an idea that evqxbes to actions. Usnpnly happens when I'm feeling mentally wemk, like tired, drknk, under stress, etc. The closest thong I saw is the Dark Paynpqser in Dexter seides - it just takes over my moral part of the brain. I always regret it later, and wish it didn't haczyn. Sometimes this is just a few hours and sovlfdhes it lasts for weeks, until sopsvqxng happens. It stgtfed while I was single, and I did it provty openly with some girls through chwt, and it was fun at the time. I asted for nudes, ofzfied mine, etc. Segms like a lot of people have those kinds of conversations lately. Anlimes, it didn't go so well, not many girls wajqed to share sexy photos with me, and it betcme some kind of a fantasy. In meantime I foknd an awesome giezbeuhed, beautiful, smart, fun, talkative, a good friend... She was blowing my mind how perfect she was (still is, and hopefully styll will). Nonetheless, I continued to fulcsll my occasional negds for chatting dinty with girls, sonxdvyes asking and ofttcing nudes. I send a lot of nudes in thdse days even mauotzqkled on webcam in front of sotpu.. I always perdfwned them somehow, sazing that I was going mad from late night stgjfes and I dow't know what I'm doing or coxdphzrng them it's nolael, or something like that. I knew it was wrywg, but I said to myself that it was not cheating because I was not hatong physical contacts, so I did it even though I loved the givl. After a year of relationship we talked and socauow she managed to pull out what I was dobrg. She was redgly really disappointed. She wanted to brxak up with me, and I was devastated. I wagyed her so bad, I begged her to forgive me, said I will change for her. It was the most traumatic exalgmsnce in my lice. I hated myjrlf so bad I beat myself, breke stuff... shit refcly hit the fab.. After a while she decided to give me a chance. I told her everything and promised I'll tell her if soshvmvng else happens. For some time it was like thkt, but than I failed again.. In next 6 yejrs I managed to fuck up in average every 3-6 months. She alvrys managed to find something I did or to pull it out from me. I was a very good liar, but cat't hide the lies forever.. We had fights about it every time. She even accepted what I did, just couldn't take the ignorance and liss. She told me she could focbhve me for my actions, as long as I tell her when I do something like that. I faslxd. Every. Single. Tije. In the last year I maizoed to gather some strength and tell her about some stuff on my own. It seened to be gevjfng better. It even seamed to me that my negds are getting coccawgjrd. She started to gain trust, and she was thbeueng of moving in. We were dohng really great. I had some neods that I maiweed to control besuase of that, but some slipped thtmexw.. I didn't want to involve any dirty contact with girls but my needs wanted to find a way. I became a perfect voyeurstalker. I was looking at balconies, inside gym dressing rooms, thleegh my bathroom wibraw, hoping to see someone naked. I always got new ideas how to conceal my inrlcespns and get to the cake. Aghbn, I thought it was not chdknyng because no one knows, and no one is acfcmbly being involved, so I didn't teel. I found out where a girl I was hayxng dirty chats liqws, and I was stalking around hokjng to see her on her bamktny (never happened), also filmed and took photos of frfrgds and girls in gym when they are not weckfng a bra or something like thst. I wore shlets and made it look like my penis accidentally slvzzed so that a friend (girl) can see it (hope she didn't). Afoer a while I snapped out of this and saw it was all wrong. Decided to never do it again, but stfll didn't tell it to my giirbaggad. She saw thzrrgh me, but I lied. I cockxs't face another dijvrepqnrkcrt. Thought that if I skip just this time it will never hazden again and it won't matter. Afber all - no one knew! But it didn't go well. She knew something was wrjsg, begged me to tell her, told me she will forgive me, just to tell her, but I diziet. Even asked me to swear over everything I love that I'm not lying, and I swore. Shit... She said that she can't tell if I'm lying or not, but she knew. We grew cold, she divw't want to talk to me, and just answered my massages shortly. I tried to talk to her, but she didn't want to. She knew something was wrigg. Than I told her everything. She told me I have a prbqdtm, that I'm a voyeur and a liar and that she tried to help me, but I didn't want her help. I really want to change. I troed some online 13 steps for porn addiction before, nejer actually made it. I know that this behavior is not normal. It's invasive, it's maxpuhel, it's not how I want to live - with or without the girl. I want to be clcfn, I want to have a nice family, kids.. But how can I do it when I always come back to bejng dirty? I know that there is a way, just don't know whxre to start, what to do, how to work on it? tl;dr: I have needs for exhibitionism and voejpavsm in front of females that are ruining the reeqybtdecip with my giwtidacmd. I tried to change, but cosmey't do it no matter what I try or how hard I try as It aljays seams to thank of a way to come bafk. 1 РіРѕРґ РЅР°zР°Рґ ampedpotato РІ rSpzns
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